Dating Older Women Kenya

Should I change for my boyfriend?

I love my boyfriend so much. We’ve been together for about six months. He’s 26. I’m a little older. He says I flirt too much. That my comments to men are inappropriate and that if I want to be his woman. It must stop. I consider it just jokes not flirting. I do work in a factory building car seats and work with alot of men. I mean nothing by my comments truly.He is the only man for me. I have been known to tell sexual jokes and make sexual remarks. I’m very open and opionated. He has only worked there for 10 mos. I have been there for 9 years. I think it was one of the reasons he was attacted to me to begin with. Why would he want me to change? He is also from Kenya, Africa. Im a Caucasian American. I have toned down my behavior ever since we started dating but he wants absolutely no sexual intoned remarks from at all. I do not want to lose this man. He is wonderful in everyway but I don’t want to lose myself either.

normally i would say don’t change for anyone, but he is clearly uncomfortable with your flirting, even if it is harmless. i do the same thing, i flirt with guys & girls just joking around, and my bf of almost 7 months doesn’t mind. infact he does it too sometimes. i would say you should explain to him that it’s just something you do as a joke, and you mean nothing by it. if he still doesn’t like it, tone it down a bit, but be careful of changing just for a guy. let him know that is who you are, and you don’t want to be changed.

TYT – Extended Clip August 23, 2011