20 year old seeking dating advice?

Got out of a 4 year relationship, found myself flirting with this woman and realized I should be honest with myself and end things on a good term since I wasn’t as happy as I should be, leaving hope for the future.

I went on several dating sites, and the woman on there are shallow; that or I’m jealous because I don’t look like a thug or convicted serial rapist. I really want to have a woman to love. All the woman that have talked to me somewhat online haven’t responded after a short conversation or two. Women & men, advice?
You guys are giving me some awesome answers, thank you :)

My cousin belongs to several different online dating services and she says the same thing about men that you say about women.

I may be wrong, but I think most of the folks who use those things are “serial daters” and it seems that dishonesty is almost a given. My advice would be to let your friends know that you are back on the market, take a class, join a gym, find a church with a singles group if you are a believer, and never turn down a wedding invitation – great place to meet people and they are (almost) always fun, positive affairs.

Most of all, RELAX – you’re young; concentrate on learning more about who you are, what makes you happy, what your goals are, etc. I know it’s a cliche, but it’s a cliche firmly based in reality; the best relationships present themselves when you’re not obssessed with finding one.

Good luck!

Online Dating Advice for Men – Adam Gilad-Deep Attraction Online




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