Christian Dating Advice For Teenagers
Made fun of, can’t stand it. Going against God? What to do? please help. lost. advice?
I was asked out by this wierd kid at school the other day that a few friends of min eat lunch with. And I was sort of shoked, but for some reason, said yes. The thing is, he is pretty wierd. Really long curly hair and he doesn’t have the best reputation. Many people think he’s a creep and wierd and they just don’t like him. I’m known as a total Christian. I go to church three times a week and am really religious. People have been tormenting me about it and I don’t know what to do. I know this isn’t dating section, but I am so lost. I am scared I’m going against God’s will. I prayed that if it was, that he wouldn’t let it happen. But I am here and I don’t know what to do. I don’t even know if I like him. But I know that I am being made fun of by others and I shouldn’t not do it because of that. I sound like an immature teenager, and I guess in all honesty, I am. I just don’t know what to do, considering God, church, friends, the kid, my well being, and selfishness.
Spending time with someone who isn’t a Christian isn’t a sin.
If that were the case, Jesus would have never walked the earth because everyone but Himself was born into sin.
The guy likes you and asked you to spend time with him, he didn’t ask you to marry him. You were being friendly and polite and said yes to this impromptu invitation to fellowship, not to a marriage proposal.
You said it yourself that you are known as a total Christian, so he must know about your faith. If he is interested about your faith, use this time as an opportunity to share it when he asks.
Accepting people as they are (no matter how weird they are perceived) is more of a reflection of God’s attitude than rejecting people based on differences.
You are not going against God. Actually, God would get a chuckle out of your unnecessary fear.
What to do?
God would pat you on the back and say:
“Don’t worry about it, it’s okay. Just get to know him as a person, and be willing to listen. You just might gain a new friend. The reason you said yes to his invitation was because I guided you to say it so that he could hear your witness.”
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